You usually crown the girl at church after the Father or whatever blesses it but also if you just have like a flower band in your hair your mom crowns you after your dad changes your shoes.
No you're dad changes the shoes becuz he's accepting that you're becoming a woman by letting you wear heels. Unless the person who raised you was your mom then she's the only one who should do that. But otherwise it's your dad.
So hey if u have the very 1st tiara u wear. Do u put it on before or during church????? before right and then when the father blesses ur 15 tiara-crown then ur mom puts it on u at the church?? am i right or no?? so then when do i put my jewelry on. At the reception..cause the debuts ive been to only have receptions. No church or mas,, but since im having a mass im kinda confused! well please let me know!