My sister is planning my quince...i don't really have any connection to it....i mean im not spanish or anything...its just my bestest friend in the whole widest world is spanish and they suggested that i have one...is it right for me to have one...or would that be rude.....i dunno...and if i should have one.....it would be in august 04......i don't know any themes.....i know the cereomonial type things.....but i just don't know what theme to do....and i wouldn't have damas or chambleans either....maybe just boys....i've been to two quince's and im familiar with how they go....but i think i should have "my escort"......what do you all think....help please.....